I’m looking at the profiles that read: “Don’t even think about swiping right if you are under 6 ft and don’t make at least six figures. I want someone who will treat me like a princess, meaning flowers every other day, make me dinner when I’m tired, can afford shoes with red bottoms (you know the one) and will put me first above all else.”
I commend any and all of you who have standards and convictions you are passionate about when it comes to establishing a relationship. You most definitely should. But let’s take a moment to break this down. You’ve never met these people and, similarly, they have no idea who you are.
These dudes aren’t going to relentlessly vie for your love and social media endorsements like faceless cogs
Most dating app users are just seeking an initial attraction, and then will probably immediately ask you out for a drink without much lead-in. Despite the rush of it all, I would still encourage you all to hold off on the demands. Allow your personality to shine through and not to get overpowered by your manufactured idea of perfection.
Save your monochromatic color scheme and naturally unnatural beach aesthetic for Instagram. In most cases, you can connect other social media to your profile, so remember, your matches have probably scoured your other accounts. İncele
