In other words, it pays to focus your valuable energy on increasing your mate value as a woman in your relationship, over being obsessively fearful or vigilant.
The problem is that a lot of women fear the apparently more attractive woman having the ability to take their man. Take a look at the brouhaha surrounding Angelina Jolie and Brad Pitt when they broke up…apparently it was all Angelina Jolie’s fault, but is it really her fault?
Or was she just opportunistic – and able to be so – because the bond between Aniston and Pitt wasn’t all that great to begin with? Perhaps they weren’t that loyal to each other after all?
It’s easy for women to look at another woman, and think that her beauty, status and enchanting disposition are a threat.
Regardless of whether or not someone like Angelina Jolie or the gorgeous girl next door have bad intentions with your husband or boyfriend, a successful and passionate relationship will thrive and remain strong despite external threats.
At the end of the day, mate poachers are the constant in this world – you cannot control them any more than you can control your own husband.
They will always exist, because the people who already successfully communicated their value, attracted a mate are already taken or married.
That leaves the remaining people two options: choose from the remaining pool of mates (which may carry more baggage or be of lower mate value).
Women and men of value are always going to be ogled at, desired and even conspired against by admirers. Remember that is a constant. You cannot control that. İncele
